Monday, November 27, 2017

Week 46: What are you thankful for?

What are you thankful for? 

Here is a short list of the things I’m thankful for:  My Parents, my late dog, my family (and family in general), learning opportunities, the Church and the Book of Mormon.

I am indeed grateful to be serving a mission also.  Why?  So far, it has been tough being away from home, family and various other activates - especially during the holidays.  I am grateful for the spiritual growth and maturing that come from serving a mission.  I must also say, while I miss all of the stuff back home, I know I am where I need to be.  In just a short couple days, I will only have a year left before I return home - in early December of next yearπŸ˜‰.  Oh, how time has flown by. Right?

Anyways, this week has been a good one; whether it was Thanksgiving Day spent with Bishop and his family, or being thoroughly humbled by being able to serve others this week.

That being said, here is what my week looked like:

Monday was a wonderful, even though we didn’t do much.  I got to write home!  That is and will always be the highlight of Mondays - hands down!  While we are not too sure of our plans for this Monday, I am looking forward to hearing from all of you!  If you are reading this, shoot me an email at connor.dickinson@myldsmail.net, I’d love to hear from you – yes YOU!

Tuesday was hectic!  We ended up putting together 1,200 boxes of food at the food bank, instead of our usual 530 boxes.  This being the week of Thanksgiving, it was really busy!  They were taking the boxes we put together right out of our hands as soon as we filled them up, turned around and handed them to people in need  I was blessed to be a part of the workers on that day.  It was a special opportunity.  Sadly, I got stuck on juice duty.  I had to add a 3lb bottle of juice to each box during the whole time we were at the food bank.  If you do the math, one 3lb bottle of juice per box X 1,200 boxes = 1.8 tons of juice!  After the food bank, we headed out to contact some referrals.  We’ve been busy lately and the referrals we receive have been piling up.  We had seven referrals and we visited all of them - without one bit of luck.  Oh well, time will tell if our visits will come to anything – and we can always try again later.  That night, we had dinner with the C___ family. They are a very nice, young family.  They had a super cool bathroom with a Roman walk-in shower/tub thingy.  It was a very cool idea (from a construction management point of view).  After dinner, we stopped by K___ to check in with her, but she wasn’t home.  As we were leaving, she pulled into her driveway.  She had a rough day and was just glad to have someone to talk to.  God works in mysterious ways. I was glad we were able to stop by her place and help, even if it was something simple, like listening to her.

They love their fires here in AZ!


Wednesday was a good day.  We had our District Meeting at the Los Reales Ward Building, here in Tucson.  We learned about teaching the commandments.  After the District Meeting we went out to eat at a Chinese buffet and almost ate ourselves to sleep.   After that, we did some stop-by visits with some active church members.  Later, we had dinner with the B__ family.  We had chicken, potatoes and broccoli – it was a great dinner!  After that, we had a lesson with a relatively recent convert.  We talked to her for a little bit and then that was a wrap for the day.

Turkey Day:  Gobble gobble, lol.  As far as I am concerned, Thanksgiving was an awesome day!  It started off as a normal day until linner (you know, the meal between lunch and dinner = linner).  We went over to Bishop’s house at 3:00 for linner and we ate an amazing Thanksgiving dinner.  The best part was the candied yams and green beans.  Man, I am excited to be home for Thanksgiving (2019, sigh) and eat those awesome green beans Mom makes!  After eating dinner, we played tetherball, had nerf wars and later played table tennis.  After all of this we headed home with a ton of food they boxed up for us.  We made it home and felt like we were going to die from how much we ate.  I did miss being with family, huntin’ ‘up nort’ (No, that’s not a type-o, that’s how they say it in Wisconsin. Yeah, it’s weird - if you’re not from there) – but that’s OK, because I have the rest of my life for that kind of stuff.  Man, it was the hottest Thanksgiving I have ever seen. We have been breaking all kinds of temperature records lately. This was the first time I have ever had a 94 degree Thanksgiving, lol.


SOOOOOOO FULLLLL!

Post Thanksgiving Linner Smiles

Best way to work off linner....NERF WAR!

Thats some serious competition!

Leftovers! Thank you!


Friday was an interesting day - for sure!  First, we did our weekly planning while we recovered from the day before. You would have thought we were hungover... nope just coming out of a food coma, lol.  It was rough!  After planning, Elder Ikimau and I were invited to go to a fireside in Topawa, AZ.  Part of the O'Odham (the native American tribe on the reservation we serve) culture is you can only tell stories in the winter. So now that it had been cooling down, (call it winter if you want to, but 94 degrees…not in Wisconsin, lol) after sunset, they can tell their folklore.  They shared a story about the Great Flood - it was comparable to the Noah’s Arc story.  After they shared their story, Elder Ikimau shared a story form his Niuean tribal lore.  It defiantly was special in the fact that it was like a family reunion, where nobody has ever meet before.  It was honestly one of the coolest things I’ve experienced.  After sharing his story Elder Ikimau did a 'haka,' the war dance they do before well...war.  It is a sacred dance. He is teaching me and one other elder in the district the haka, so we can send him off next month when he goes home.  I can’t wait!   It is going to be awesome.  I will have someone record it when the time comes.  That being said, he has given every one of his companions a lava-lava (look it up). Well, me being his dying (last) companion, I will be receiving the lava-lava his mother gave him, the one his mother wore to school in Fiji, the one he used his whole mission and the one he wore growing up.  I am so honored to accept it!  We have grown close over the last couple of weeks.

Saturday was a very humbling day for me.  It was a normal day until about 3 o’clock when Bro. Collingwood drove us to Sells to help a family named the D__s, on the reservation.  Sis. D__ is from a tribe in North Carolina and her mother is sick, so she is in N.C. taking care of her.  Sis. D__’s husband is 60 and has been suffering from Parkinson’s since he was 40.  It came on really fast. They were a normal family until one day they were playing volleyball and he had a stroke, which basically activated his Parkinson’s.  He has had batteries placed in his chest with a wire running to his brain, which has helped stop the shaking.  He can no longer stand, eat or get into bed alone. He can hardly talk or do anything.  It’s extremely sad. I was HONORED to be able to help watch over him for that night.  We spent the night with him since he was basically alone all day.  So, we had a tender mercy of watching football with him and talking with him for the night.  We later help put him into bed and got everything situated for him and for the person who would be there to help in the morning.  This was all super humbling for me!  It made me wonder why we complain about what we have or don’t have?  Things we have to do – No – make that things we GET to do.  Don’t take what you have or what you do for granted because it can all change in the blink of an eye! 
I know I have been guilty of this and will probably be again.  It was such a humbling experience.

Sells also has more than its fair share of crime.  There were two shootings in Sells while we were there, which resulted in one death. There was a big gang fight…with knives and guns...the Crips from L.A. are really strong and active out there right now.

This happened across the street from my apartment!


Anyways, Sunday was a long day for me. It included me doing the following:

-          Attending Ward Council Meeting (Midvale Ward)
-          Giving the Opening Prayer (Midvale Ward Sacrament Meeting)
-          Blessing the Sacrament  (Midvale Ward)
-          Driving to and from Sells, AZ. (150 miles round trip)
-          Blessing the sacrament (Sells Branch)
-          Giving a Spur of the moment Sacrament Meeting talk on charity (Sells Branch)
-          Eating only one meal all day
-          The saving of souls (aka missionary work)...Priceless

It was all worth it but I was wiped out.

I hope all of y’all’s week was as good and fruitful as mine was.

I sure do love y’all!


🌡Elder Connor William Dickinson🌡 


Monday, November 20, 2017

Week 45: 10 Dollars πŸ˜€πŸ’ΈπŸ’Έ

This week I learned a valuable lesson that I would like to share with everyone. It is not a call to repentance or anything like that, lol.  The experience I had goes as follows:

Imagine you have a bank account with $86,400 in it.  Sadly, someone steals $10 of your money.  Now, would you be so upset over $10 being stolen that you would throw away the remaining $86,390 balance – just to get back at the person who stole the $10?  Or, would you forget the $10 and move on with your life? 

You see, we all have 86,400 seconds in a day.  When somebody does or says something that makes you upset,  don’t let that 10 seconds of negativity make you so mad, sad or upset (all of which are selfish emotions) that you let it ruin your entire day.

Approaching negative situations like this has allowed me to just relax and not sweat the small stuff.  It’s only been a week since I adopted this outlook, but I have been much happier.   If someone does or says something that might upset me, I just remind myself...”It’s only 10 seconds, don’t throw away the whole day - just throw out the 10 seconds of negativity!”  I hope you all were able to take something from this. Maybe - maybe not, lol, but it hit me hard. 😊

I hope you all have had a wonderful week!  After sharing my $10 story, I might as well hop right into my week:

Magnificent Monday

Monday = emails from home! :)  Need I say more?  I only have a month until I will be able to skype home!!!!! Time is flying by.  However, I’m not going to lie, not being able to hunt this year has made me so... so... so bummed -  but hey, $10 right? Anyways, that was my Monday!

Transfer Tuesday

We had transfers on Tuesday.  Even though we were not affected, we had to give the bike Elders a ride to the transfer site (not every set of Elders has a car – we’re lucky!)   After getting everything taken care of, we were able to go shopping for the coming week.  Luckily, I haven’t had to buy much recently.  I will start using my cook book that you guys sent in my last package at the beginning of December!  Later Tuesday evening we had dinner with the C___ family.  Man, I sure do love bananas in Jell-O for some reason, lol.

Whumpday Wednesday (the W is silent)

Wednesday was a great day!  We were able to attend our weekly District Meeting down in Sahaurita, AZ.  After the District Meeting we taught a lesson to A__ out in Three Points. We were planning on setting a baptismal date with her and two of her girls, but we got distracted. Well, they got distracted, we didn’t.  It turned out they had completely run out of fresh water. They had literally just run out!  So, we put their 55 gallon barrel in the back of our truck and asked some members in town to help fill the tank- with no success.  So, we then went the fire station.  The lady at the front desk said the Fire Chief would not let us fill the tank there.  Right after she said that, the Fire Chief came out of his office and said because we were missionaries - of course he could help out.  It turns out his wife is a less active member and he was more than willing to help.   It was so nice and he restored our faith in humanity - if you ask me.

The blessings I received on Wednesday was not because of us helping out.  The blessing was my realizing back home, how could I possibly complain about not having something?  They did not even have drinking water and here I was complaining about not having the latest (insert gadget here).  This week was full of life lessons! πŸ˜‰πŸ˜Š

Tall Thursday (tall - as in long)

Thursday was a pretty good day; we had some lessons planned that ended up being cancelled – but that’s just a part of missionary life.  That being said - we had some library time followed by our Book of Mormon class in Sells, AZ.  So, that made for a late night McDonalds trip for diner.


Fun-day Friday

Friday was a special day that I will remember for a while.  We were able to go out to Sells with another set of missionaries and play basketball with our investigator  Z__ , who is14. We played at the Sells Rec Center.  I was one of only two white people in the building – it was a blast!  We played basketball with him and his buddies for two hours. We have become good friends with both Z__ and his cousin, who he lives with.  His cousin appreciates that we keep Z__ out of trouble.  However, after balling, we taught the 3rd lesson and committed him to be baptized.  He is super excited! We didn’t have to pick a date, because he wants it to be on his late mother’s birthday, but who knows if that will happen.  Being that we were so far south in Topawa, we decided to go see the border – four miles away.  Oddly enough, we saw mile marker 0 and kept going...then we hit mile market 1, then 2 , and then we were stopped by the Border Patrol.  It turns out we were already in Mexico...whoops, lol!   The Border Patrol Agents saw that we were missionaries and the said just please turn around, lol.  It was quite the adventure!  There was no reason to take pictures, because if we were able to cross the border without knowing it, you can understand there was no way to tell where the boarder was.  It looked, smelled and felt the same, lol.  After that adventure we had dinner with Sister D___ and her family.

Sad Saturday

Saturday we had more lessons ‘magically’ fall through.  However, there was a cool member who needed help moving, so we helped move them almost all day.  It was sad because all the church members and family who were helping out started leaving until it was just us helping.  We moved and moved and moved until late afternoon.  After that, we visited with Sis. C___ and then went to a dinner appointment with a recent convert. She took us to El Nindito, a very famous restaurant down here.  It was darn good Mexican food!  In 1992, then President Bill Clinton ate there and sadly we were seated in the same booth he ate in.  At least the food was good πŸ˜‰

Super Sunday

Sunday was a typical Sunday for the Midvale ward. The only difference was Sis. Collingwood made some banging pumpkin pancakes, lol.

A typical Sunday in Sells, AZ
(this is our whole branch)


All-in-all, I learned a lot this week.  I hope to hear from y’all,  I love you! 

If you are reading this, email me at  connor.dickinson@myldsmail.net.



Love,


🌡🌴Elder Dickinson🌴🌡 

Monday, November 13, 2017

Week 44: Transfer News

We got our transfer calls Saturday night and take a guess at what happened! You’ll never guess... well, actually nothing happened.  Elder Ikimau and I are staying in Midvale!  I’m pumped that I get to kill him (be his last companion before he goes home) in this area.  So, unless they white wash this area (transfer us both out at the same time and bring in two new Elders), which they probably won’t, I’ll be locked in for at least two more transfer!!!!

I’m so excited to be in Midvale for at least another two transfers!  I love this ward so much. The people are awesome. 

Monday was good in the fact that I got to email everyone - but it was not very awesome at the same time, because we had a lot of trouble with our email server not cooperating.  Hopefully, it will work a lot better today because I’m excited to just email back and forth all day.  I’d love to hear from everyone – if you are reading this – send me an email at connor.dickinson@myldsmail.net.

To be honest...the rest of this week was not all that eventful.  There was a lot of time spent driving.  And to make it worse, I didn’t take any pictures - so I am apologizing in advance.

Tuesday started with service at the food bank.  I love working at foodbank, partially because of the tender mercy of music.  Music makes working there pretty darn enjoyable.  After the food bank we drove home, dropped the other Elders off and decided to do some stop-by visits until dinner.   Our dinner appointment was with the B__ family.  We had a great time.  We had tri-tip steak and twice baked potatoes and man, was it good!   After some conversation, we shared a Thanksgiving message and scripture.  Then, we headed home for the night.

Wednesday:  We had our weekly District Meeting in Sahaurita, AZ.  It was Elder Stephenson’s last district meeting before he dies (the end of his mission) and  returns home in a few days.  He’s a great guy and a great friend, he will be missed.  We held his funeral after District Meeting, lol.  After the drive home we had a few referrals to contact with no luck (as usual).  After that we went on splits with the Valencia Elders.  Elder Ikimau went with Elder Perry.  They went to a dinner appointment and taught a lesson.  Elder Ranson and I went to the S___s’ for a lesson...but they cancelled, so we went to the park and did some basketball tracting.  We met a guy named M__.  He wasn’t really interested, but said that we could come by.  Too bad he is in Valencia Elders’ area.   We had a fun night playing basketball at the park, but it was super sketchy because it was in south Tucson - where if you don’t hear police sirens something is wrong!  There is a murder just about every day along with robberies, drive-shootings and stuff like that.  It’s like a little Los Angeles, lol.

Thursday was a pretty good day.  We did service at the food bank again. We ran boxes the whole time.  After finishing at the food bank, we went to Lin’s Grand Buffet for lunch.  It was a Chinese buffet and man, I smashed that thing.  They had some awesome boiled crawfish that were so good! After the buffet we went on splits again. Elder Perry and I drove to Sells and Three Points and Elder Ranson and Ikimau went and taught a lesson to A__ Q__.  Both went very, very good! Lot of driving though. That was pretty much Thursday.

Friday:  We did our weekly planning for the first part of the day and the night was interesting.  We drove to Sells again.  Actually, we went to Topawa, AZ, which is actually 20 miles south of Sells and taught Z__ at his uncle’s house.  It went well, but there is still quite a bit of work to do with him.  We taught that lesson 4 miles from the Mexican border.  It was pretty cool, but kind of eerie feeling because the Border Patroll is everywhere and on the way home we passed some illegals and the house where teaching the lession had been broken into last week. We played basketball before our lesson and after the lesion we had dinner. We ate menudo.  It was pretty good, but was by far the weirdest thing I’ve eaten, so far.  Menudo is tripe (cow stomach) and hominy (corn soaked in lye).  It was pretty good, but had a weird texture. Then, we spent part of the long drive home dodging cows on the highway - in the dark, lol.

Saturday:  We made some stop- by visits.  While doing that, we stopped by K__’s house and gave her a triple combination set of scriptures.  She loved the gift.  After visiting with her, we stopped in to visit Sis. C__.  She is the best - such a sweet spirit!  Also, Wisconsin won their game!  So, it was a darn good day! Later, we had a dinner appointment with the C__ family.  We had steak and potatoes - and a lot of it!  I was a happy man!  Then, once we got home, we got transfer calls and nothing changed.  

Sunday was a typical Sunday in this area – Missionary Work from dusk ‘til dawn. I was exhausted.

As a missionary we often leave a spiritual message with our families or stop bys. This month we have been sharing a message of gratitude because of Thanksgiving. However, I wanted to share my favorite message that I like to leave with members, it is called: Only 10 Dollars and can be found here:


I hope you enjoy it.

I love you guys so much!   Keep the faith!

Love


🌴🌡πŸ”₯Elder Dickinson πŸ”₯🌡🌴

Monday, November 6, 2017

Week 43: Week something or other...

This week ended up being a pretty decent one.  I don’t have any complaints, so that’s a plus, right?

Monday we just chilled until we went shopping and then headed in for the night.  Of course, I enjoyed emailing you guys. It was good to hear from you and thanks for all of the support you sent my way.  Some people think only family can email me – not true.  Feel free to email me at connor.dickinson@myldsmail.net.  I’d love to hear from you.

Tuesday:  We went to Sis. W___’s house to do some service for her.  We weeded her whole yard!  I think at some point before I left for my mission, Dad said something about me not having to mow any lawns – because of the lack of grass - but weeding gravel yards is WAY worse, by far, lol.  Later in the day, we did some stop-by visits and then had a dinner appointment with the R___ family.  She made some killer fried tacos and Uce (Elder Ikimau’s nick name) and I ate 13 each. Needless to say, being fried you can guess what happened at 3:30 a.m.  My stomach absolutely rejects grease, so right back up it they came, lol.  Probably TMI, right?  But it happened, lol.

Halloween = Temple trip

I love the Tucson temple!





Wednesday:  We headed off to our District Meeting, which was decent.  Afterwards, we drove home, ate lunch and visited Sis. C__.  She is such a sweetheart!  After that, we went to the library so Elder Ikimau could work on his ‘My Plan’ (it is a church program for missionaries to complete before they go home.  It helps them plan for their future after their missions) and then we ate dinner at home and then did some finding for the rest of the night.  The finding was very uneventful, as it almost always is – but it is what it is.

Thursday we worked at the foodbank until about 1:00.   We got a lot of boxes done but there were less people there than usual, so it took little longer but we got all of our work done! After the foodbank we worked with Bro. Collingwood contacting less active members – all day long.   He has a spreadsheet with all types of info on each inactive person in the Ward (500+). Yes, with that many less actives, it seems like a never ending task.  It was fun and we get to meet some really nice people – they’re just not active.  Later that night, we had dinner with the O__ family.  We had some awesome Polynesian fare followed by toasting marshmallows and learning more about each other.  Its simple times like this that I enjoy the most on my mission.  There are people down here that aren't just people I serve, they have become family.   The O__s and Bro, Collingwood are the ones from the Midvale ward so far.  Man, I sure do love them

Friday:  We did our weekly planning and had a dinner appointment with Sis.G___.  She made us some killer chili!  It was very good, but so hot that I burnt my tongue badly, which has made for a couple rough days (eating wise, of course). 

Saturday:  We got to do some service for Sis. S__. We cleaned up her yard.  This time I was on tree duty and found out I have a knack for trimming trees. Oddly enough, right?   It was fun and what was once was kind of ugly now looks beautiful!  She thought I was like a uber talented tree trimer .  I just think I got lucky, ha-ha.  That took up most of the day and then we went out with Bro. Collingwood and visited a ton more people - then it was time for dinner so we went home  and I got my hair cut........ and dyed ………black, lol. 

Rainbow = = RAIN! :O


It looks surprisingly good and people love it!  I don’t know why.  Personally, it’s growing on me, but once my hair grows out I won’t do it again lol. Now, I really look like Clark Kent when I wear my glasses, lol.  πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I was thinking about purposely leaving that out of the email, but it’s not a big deal, lol.

Sunday:  I freaked out when I looked in the mirror because I had forgotten my hair had been dyed the night before, hahahaha.  This Sunday we didn’t have our regular meetings, but instead, we had a regional broadcast.  The Stakes all met together in their respective buildings to watch it.  It was interesting.  Fun fact:  If I counted right, Tucson has twice as many Stakes as all of Wisconsin.  Crazy, right?!  After the meeting, we stop and visited with K__ and then we went to Bro. Collingwood’s for dinner. After that it was back to the church for a Ward Correlation Meeting, where we talked about the needs of the ward.

Such a beautiful temple!


I’m sorry if this email might seem bland, but that was just the perfect way to describe my week - other than Saturday night, lol.

I hope y’all had a good week. I Love you and can’t wait to hear from everybody.

Love,


Elder Dickinson 


Week 99: Mission Accomplished!

First and foremost, I just want to let y'all know my flight into Central Wisconsin airport (CWA), is scheduled to land at about 3:50 o...